THE EXQUISITE FLOWER

‘We are all exquisite wildflowers. Living in a field of our dreams…’

The Exquisite Flower: Our Birthright to Pleasure

Inside of us all lives a miraculous flower, with her layers, openings and hidden depths – the yoni is a flower waiting to bloom… At the tip lies an exquisite floret, the clitoris, which symbolises our abundant spreading femininity and our birthright to pleasure.

The female body has been gifted with an intricate network of over 8,000 nerve endings concentrated in the clitoris alone. This extraordinary organ’s sole purpose is to provide us with pleasure. But the clitoris is far more than just a sensitive external nub; it is the visible tip of a complex internal structure that extends deeply within the body. The external glans is merely the floret – the part that connects to the clitoral body, crura, bulbs, and vestibular tissue, all richly supplied with nerve fibres and blood vessels.

This complex structure links directly to the pudendal nerve, one of the primary nerves of the region, which in turn connects to the spinal cord and brain, forming an elaborate communication highway. When stimulated, it sends rapid pulses of electrical signals through this network, activating not only physical sensation but triggering responses in the autonomic nervous system. This stimulation enhances blood flow, increasing oxygenation and vitality in body. The intricate network interfaces with the parasympathetic nervous system, which governs relaxation and restorative processes. This connection allows pleasurable sensations to ripple through the body, promoting hormonal balance and reducing stress creating restoration in the body. Her rhythmic pulses send energy waves that resonate through the body, influencing the energetic systems of the entire body, from the sacral plexus upwards through the spine.

As women, our bodies were designed to feel pleasure. As women, we have forgotten and allowed ourselves to be convinced that this is not the case. And as we fall deeper into the cultural belief that our bodies exist for the pleasure of men, we have lost our connection to our own pleasure and our god given right to put our fingers on the button and feel the stimulating heat, tingling electric sensation and euphoria that we have been designed to experience.

A dark void can grow in the lives of many women when the increasing demands to meet the needs of others overwhelm them, and their internal passion and joy steadily drift completely out of their experience. A dullness and greyness sets inside, a nothingness that can be experienced as a form of ‘living death’. Her life force, once full of possibilities, excitement and joy begins to evaporates. This feeling or lack thereof – that so many women experience – is in direct opposition to who they truly are and what they were born to feel.

The clitoris is a vital organ that recharges not only our sensual experience but also our energetic and nervous systems. Through touch, pulse, and electric signals, it revitalises the entire reproductive region, awakening dormant pathways and sending waves of stimulation through the nervous system. This flow enhances blood circulation, hormonal release, and nervous system plasticity, contributing to overall wellbeing and vitality.

In this way, pleasure is not just an indulgence but a profound biological necessity. It guides us toward balance, renewal, and wholeness. The electric energy of the clitoris stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting release, rest, healing, and connection to the deeper emotional body. The connection between sensation and nervous system response is a natural cycle of true vitality and life force energy – one that nourishes the body and fuels divine creative expression. 

We need to feel pleasure, it is a true 'need'. And we need to mirror that pleasure out into our world. If we can break free from the social constructions of shame, and the false paradigm that we live and exist for the pleasure of others, we can reconnect with our bodies, minds, and lives through a deliberate experience of pleasure within ourselves as our god given gift. Seeking out that which pleases us is the pre-destined joy of living and creating – of feeling, and of loving. Pleasure is the key to living a joyful, beautiful, passionate life, and we as women have been created to experience it.

Have you allowed the pleasure to slowly drift out of your world?